One thing I've noticed, as a therapist and human, is that we don't often talk about how terrifying freedom feels. Claiming the power to define your identity is a radical act of love.
Post Update February 21, 2020 Hello, my beauties. Since writing this piece, I’ve come out as genderqueer femme. It’s interesting to come back here, and re-read this piece. My internal reality was shifting in epic, tectonic plate grinding ways. I remember writing the words “I’m cis-gender” and knowing it didn’t fit. But I didn’t know how to reconcile that feeling with my internal reality. At least not without blowing up the infrastructure of my life. However, when I gave myself permission to be authentically me, I discovered my infrastructure was stronger than I ever imagined. It was wonderous. Also, My position on Wynn has changed a bit, as well. Wynn’s…