Kink and Disability, A Beyond #fetchat Musing
The current Beyond #fetchat topic is disability and kink. Disability. Whew. I have a complicated relationship with that word. And when sex, especially kink, is added to the equation, complicated turns to Byzantine.
The Best Sexual You, Sex and Magic Numbers
Everywhere there's talk about how to the best you in the new year, including how much sex makes a relationship healthy. Guess what? There's no magic number.
Masturbation and Intimacy, A Musing about Relationships
A musing about masturbation and intimacy, and how self-love can serve as a way to achieve sexual intimacy with yourself and your partner(s).
A Practice of Self-Love & Kindness
On Tuesday I watched myself have an orgasm. I've been processing the experience for the past few days. Seeing myself with compassion and care has always been a challenge. But learning how to adopt a kinder gaze takes practice.
Everyone Needs a Safeword
Let's talk about safety, specifically the practice of establishing a safeword. Regardless of whether you're vanilla or a kinkster, everyone needs one.
No Fake Orgasms: don’t diminish yourself or your pleasure.
No Fake Orgasms. That’s my #MotivationMonday message. "Fake it 'till you make it" may work for a new job, but when it comes to life between the sheets (or on the couch, or in a field....), it's crap advice.
The Only Thing to Fear: #Fetchat & Fear Play
I’ve been on a bit of a self-imposed hiatus. Now I'm back and I want to talk about #Fetchat, the weekly Twitter chat that I co-host, and this week's topic: fear play in kink..
Watching: Short Smut to Get You Through Thursday
Eureka! It's Pi Day. I'm honoring the mathematical constant with a smutty short fic.
A Review of the Fin Vibrator for Fingers by Dame & Thoughts on Edging
Your body is yours. It sounds simple. Something that’s a given, right? But when was the last time you pampered your body like you would that of a lover? I'm excited to share my thoughts on the latest toy in…
Self-Love, Satire, and Satyrs
It's March, which means spring is waiting off on stage left to make her entrance. What better time to talk about masturbation, body image, self-love self-acceptance? And then take a peek at The Satyricon, the next stop on my EroticAdventure.
