Kink and Disability, A Beyond #fetchat Musing
The current Beyond #fetchat topic is disability and kink. Disability. Whew. I have a complicated relationship with that word. And when sex, especially kink, is added to the equation, complicated turns to Byzantine.
Trigger Words and the Benefits of Kink Communication Tools
For this week's Beyond #fetchat post, I want to talk about my own experience with triggers. And how kink communication practices can benefit folks who struggle with intrusive memories.
Reflecting on #fetchat in 2019
2019 has been a year of revelation, acceptance, and celebration. One of the accomplishments of which I’m most proud is contributing to the re-emergence of #fetchat in April.
On Display: An Erotic Meditation on Exhibitionism
Hello, My beauties. Today on #fetchat, we're talking about exhibitionism. For some reason, "On Display," an erotic meditation popped into my head. Enjoy!
Trans and Gender Non-conforming Voices
Post Update February 21, 2020 Hello, my beauties. Since writing this piece, I’ve come out as genderqueer femme. It’s interesting to come back here, and re-read this piece. My internal reality was shifting in epic, tectonic plate grinding ways. I…
My Recovery Collar: Using BDSM Tools to Heal
The tools you use for a scene should reflect your needs and the type of play you enjoy. And how you use them, providing your keeping things SSC or RACK (Risk Accepted Consensual Kink) is up to you. Your creativity…
Daddy is a State of Mind
This week on #fetchat we're dishing about daddy kink and DD/lg relationships. So I wanted to give you all something to consider: Daddy is state of mind.
Primal Play: A #Fetchat Musing on Going Primal
Hello, My Beauties, This week #Fetchat is stepping into the past with primal play. And when I say the past, I’m not talking about 19th-century pirate/merman role-play (although that would be fun). Primal play is about leaving civilization behind and…
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Of Filthy Manifestos, EroticAdventures, & #Fetchat
Every year sad straight, white men and evangelicals moan about Pride Month. I refuse to allow those troglodytes to dampen my spirit because I've got news!
The Only Thing to Fear: #Fetchat & Fear Play
I’ve been on a bit of a self-imposed hiatus. Now I'm back and I want to talk about #Fetchat, the weekly Twitter chat that I co-host, and this week's topic: fear play in kink..
