The current Beyond #fetchat topic is disability and kink. Disability. Whew. I have a complicated relationship with that word. And when sex, especially kink, is added to the equation, complicated turns to Byzantine.
For this week's Beyond #fetchat post, I want to talk about my own experience with triggers. And how kink communication practices can benefit folks who struggle with intrusive memories.
2019 has been a year of revelation, acceptance, and celebration. One of the accomplishments of which I’m most proud is contributing to the re-emergence of #fetchat in April.
Hello, My beauties. Today on #fetchat, we're talking about exhibitionism. For some reason, "On Display," an erotic meditation popped into my head. Enjoy!
Post Update February 21, 2020 Hello, my beauties. Since writing this piece, I’ve come out as genderqueer femme. It’s interesting to come back here, and re-read this piece. My internal reality was shifting in epic, tectonic plate grinding ways. I…
The tools you use for a scene should reflect your needs and the type of play you enjoy. And how you use them, providing your keeping things SSC or RACK (Risk Accepted Consensual Kink) is up to you. Your creativity…
This week on #fetchat we're dishing about daddy kink and DD/lg relationships. So I wanted to give you all something to consider: Daddy is state of mind.
Hello, My Beauties, This week #Fetchat is stepping into the past with primal play. And when I say the past, I’m not talking about 19th-century pirate/merman role-play (although that would be fun). Primal play is about leaving civilization behind and…
Every year sad straight, white men and evangelicals moan about Pride Month. I refuse to allow those troglodytes to dampen my spirit because I've got news!
I’ve been on a bit of a self-imposed hiatus. Now I'm back and I want to talk about #Fetchat, the weekly Twitter chat that I co-host, and this week's topic: fear play in kink..