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Pup, A Sweet Interlude of Puppy Play
The most recent #fetchat was all about pet play. I'm fascinated by pet play, especially puppy play. This is a little glimpse of a sweet interlude between a Pup and his mistress.
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Long Distance, Some Beyond #fetchat Smut
Last week on #fetchat, we talked about 24/7 total power exchange. It got me thinking about kink in this age of social distancing. Then smut happened.
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Budgeting Time for kink, A Beyond fetchat Musing
Last week on #fetchat we talked about kink on a budget. For Beyond fetchat I want to talk about another resource that's important to budget: Time
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Fantasy, A Royal Offering
I was planning on posting for Sinful Sunday this week. When I saw the Teddy Bears and Plushies topic for the Kink of the Week meme, this snippet of smutty fantasy happened.
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Kink and Disability, A Beyond #fetchat Musing
The current Beyond #fetchat topic is disability and kink. Disability. Whew. I have a complicated relationship with that word. And when sex, especially kink, is added to the equation, complicated turns to Byzantine.
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Trigger Words and the Benefits of Kink Communication Tools
For this week's Beyond #fetchat post, I want to talk about my own experience with triggers. And how kink communication practices can benefit folks who struggle with intrusive memories.
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Reflecting on #fetchat in 2019
2019 has been a year of revelation, acceptance, and celebration. One of the accomplishments of which I’m most proud is contributing to the re-emergence of #fetchat in April.
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On Display: An Erotic Meditation on Exhibitionism
Hello, My beauties. Today on #fetchat, we're talking about exhibitionism. For some reason, "On Display," an erotic meditation popped into my head. Enjoy!
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Trans and Gender Non-conforming Voices
Post Update February 21, 2020 Hello, my beauties. Since writing this piece, I’ve come out as genderqueer femme. It’s interesting to come back here, and re-read this piece. My internal reality was shifting in epic, tectonic plate grinding ways. I remember writing the words “I’m cis-gender” and knowing it didn’t fit. But I didn’t know how to reconcile that feeling with my internal reality. At least not without blowing up the infrastructure of my life. However, when I gave myself permission to be authentically me, I discovered my infrastructure was stronger than I ever imagined. It was wonderous. Also, My position on Wynn has changed a bit, as well. Wynn’s…
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My Recovery Collar: Using BDSM Tools to Heal
The tools you use for a scene should reflect your needs and the type of play you enjoy. And how you use them, providing your keeping things SSC or RACK (Risk Accepted Consensual Kink) is up to you. Your creativity is the only thing limiting you.
