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Unspoken Contracts, A Beyond #fetchat Musing on What Goes Unsaid
September 30th's #fetchat was about D/s power exchange contracts. And I started thinking about all the unspoken contracts that ruin great sex.
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Cygnet Springs, Part II – An exploration of Dominance and Service
Oliver's & Jordan's Cygnet Springs adventure continues, including Oliver offering a smutty demonstration of service-oriented Dominance.
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The Good Kind of Pain, A Beyond Fetchat Musing
Spankings are about the good kind of sting. But it took me time to untangle my relationship with pain and build a healthy solo kink practice.
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Long Distance, Some Beyond #fetchat Smut
Last week on #fetchat, we talked about 24/7 total power exchange. It got me thinking about kink in this age of social distancing. Then smut happened.
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Budgeting Time for kink, A Beyond fetchat Musing
Last week on #fetchat we talked about kink on a budget. For Beyond fetchat I want to talk about another resource that's important to budget: Time
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Kink and Disability, A Beyond #fetchat Musing
The current Beyond #fetchat topic is disability and kink. Disability. Whew. I have a complicated relationship with that word. And when sex, especially kink, is added to the equation, complicated turns to Byzantine.
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Trigger Words and the Benefits of Kink Communication Tools
For this week's Beyond #fetchat post, I want to talk about my own experience with triggers. And how kink communication practices can benefit folks who struggle with intrusive memories.
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The First Word, A Beyond #fetchat Poem
Last week Nikki from loveisafetish.com (my amazing #fetchat co-host) and I introduced Beyond #fetchat, a weekly creative prompt. Our topic this week's Beyond #fetchat was impact play.
