Reflecting on #fetchat in 2019
2019 has been a year of revelation, acceptance, and celebration. One of the accomplishments of which I’m most proud is contributing to the re-emergence of #fetchat in April.
I’m Genderqueer, A Revelation 49 Years in the Making
It's two weeks before the end of 2019, and it looks like the year is going out with a revelation. Let's get the hard part out of the way: I'm genderqueer femme.
A Practice of Self-Love & Kindness
On Tuesday I watched myself have an orgasm. I've been processing the experience for the past few days. Seeing myself with compassion and care has always been a challenge. But learning how to adopt a kinder gaze takes practice.
Everyone Needs a Safeword
Let's talk about safety, specifically the practice of establishing a safeword. Regardless of whether you're vanilla or a kinkster, everyone needs one.
“The Acolyte,” a foot worship poem & a little #fetchat history
We’re talking about foot fetishes today on #fetchat. I was inspired by the idea of foot worship and the poem, "The Acolyte" happened.
Sexual Differences, a #fetchat musing
This week on #fetchat, we’re tackling the subject of sexual differences in relationships. We're lucky to have author, Isabelle Lauren (@RomanticaIsa on Twitter) with us this week on #fetchat.
On Display: An Erotic Meditation on Exhibitionism
Hello, My beauties. Today on #fetchat, we're talking about exhibitionism. For some reason, "On Display," an erotic meditation popped into my head. Enjoy!
Sex Blogging and fetchat and NaNoWriMo, Oh My.
There is so much to share, from earning a place on Kinkly.com's 2019 list of Sex Blogging Superheroes, to #fetchat, to my NaNoWriMo labor of love.
Thursday Thought: WTF is Wrong with People?
From trans-exclusionary hate groups to the ongoing, harmful consequences of FOSTA/SESTA, this week has been stupid. WTF is wrong with people?
No Fake Orgasms: don’t diminish yourself or your pleasure.
No Fake Orgasms. That’s my #MotivationMonday message. "Fake it 'till you make it" may work for a new job, but when it comes to life between the sheets (or on the couch, or in a field....), it's crap advice.
