There is a new language of reclamation being born. Those of us who are survivors are claiming our bodies, our minds, and our histories through sharing our experiences. These two pieces speak to my experiences and to the reclamation of…
I think of orgasms like the Swiss army knife of physical experiences. But it occurred to me we confer truckloads of value and self-worth on these brief moments of bliss.
If you’ve ever typed: “How do I Dom myself” or “Rope Bondage for One” this musing is for you!
It seems like no matter how much kink-positive culture makes it into mainstream conversations, there is still a great deal of the kink community that is shrouded in pathology. I wanted to tell a story where the kink was a…
The world is a scary place. We've got enough problems without tearing each other down. Find your bliss where you can and fight for others to have that same right.
It is about time we started seeing healthy examples of relationships where the hetero, monogamous, dyad is not the only type of healthy relationships available to emulate.
Here's a dialectic that is going to blow your mind: You can be a rape/sexual assault/incest survivor and have a perfectly healthy, non-abuse related, daddy kink.
Take a closer look at what's behind my new story "Performance Art" on @BellesaCo