For this week's Beyond #fetchat post, I want to talk about my own experience with triggers. And how kink communication practices can benefit folks who struggle with intrusive memories.
Everywhere there's talk about how to the best you in the new year, including how much sex makes a relationship healthy. Guess what? There's no magic number.
A musing about masturbation and intimacy, and how self-love can serve as a way to achieve sexual intimacy with yourself and your partner(s).
It's two weeks before the end of 2019, and it looks like the year is going out with a revelation. Let's get the hard part out of the way: I'm genderqueer femme.
On Tuesday I watched myself have an orgasm. I've been processing the experience for the past few days. Seeing myself with compassion and care has always been a challenge. But learning how to adopt a kinder gaze takes practice.
Let's talk about safety, specifically the practice of establishing a safeword. Regardless of whether you're vanilla or a kinkster, everyone needs one.
This week on #fetchat, we’re tackling the subject of sexual differences in relationships. We're lucky to have author, Isabelle Lauren (@RomanticaIsa on Twitter) with us this week on #fetchat.
There is so much to share, from earning a place on Kinkly.com's 2019 list of Sex Blogging Superheroes, to #fetchat, to my NaNoWriMo labor of love.
No Fake Orgasms. That’s my #MotivationMonday message. "Fake it 'till you make it" may work for a new job, but when it comes to life between the sheets (or on the couch, or in a field....), it's crap advice.
I'm a Mama Bear when it comes to how folks see the inherent beauty in themselves and their bodies. So when I saw this tweet from Good Girl Gone Bad Podcast (@GGGBPodcast on Twitter), I growled my Mama Bear growl…