A Review of the Fin Vibrator for Fingers by Dame & Thoughts on Edging

curatedcollectionstaggHello, My Beauties,
I’m excited to share my thoughts on the latest toy in my Desireforpasssion.com Curated Collection, The Fin Vibrator for Fingers from Dame.

Your body is yours. It sounds simple. Something that’s a given, right? But when was the last time you pampered your body like you would that of a lover? It’s a daunting question, I know, and probably not one you were expecting in a sex toy review. Hear me out, I promise I have a point.

Self-love, masturbation, flicking the bean…Whatever you want to call it, is good for you. It’s something you can do for yourself that helps you relax, sleep, reduce stress, relieve the pain of period cramps (if you menstruate), and feel better about the skin you live in.

Exploring what makes you feel good is an important part of loving yourself. The Fin Vibrator for Fingers by Dame can be an excellent companion on that journey.fullsizeoutput_25f

First, I want to give a shout out to Dame. The company focuses on all folks with vulvas and vaginas instead of just cis-women, and they have trans and cis models on their site.
Love. Them. And good-on-you Desireforpassion.com for working with a company that’s genuinely invested in the health and sexual wellness of all folks with vulvas and vaginas.

Now, on to the Fin Vibrator for Fingers by Dame. Below is the unboxing video, where I take my first peek at the Fin.

This small, but mighty vibe is a simple, out of the box, delight. It’s two side grooves let you hold it between your fingers for self-pleasuring or your toes if you’re playing with friends. There are three speeds available at the press of a button, and it’s splash-proof for easy cleaning.

Collection Hero Anne FinNot only is there direct vibration from the toy, but your whole hand (or foot) is also transformed into a shivering vibe. Who wouldn’t want a little extra magic in their touch? The Fin’s three vibration settings create a directed and intense sensation where ever it’s applied. Do you like nipple play? The Fin provides a wonderful, focused tease.
It’s even got a removable tether for those of us prone to dropping things. Yup, that’s me all over.

I. Love. This. Toy. The only real limitation for what you can do with the Fin is your imagination. Need an example of the Fin’s possibilities? Ever heard of Edging?
Edging is bringing yourself (or a partner) to the brink of orgasm, backing off, cooling down, and starting again. Think of it like a sexy version Chutes and Ladders where you always win, because when you do finally orgasm, it’s a stronger, more intense experience.
Woman with a Parrot

I think Fin is an ideal toy to use for edging (solo or partnered) because it’s easy to use. It turns off and on with the touch of a button. To stop the sensation immediately turn it off or pull your hand away (or your foot – seriously, don’t give up on the possibility of using your
entire body to make love).

If your tastes tend toward the vanilla side of the street, bring edging into masturbation as a way to explore pleasure in your own skin. It’s a sumptuous gift for yourself. Imagine taking the time to make love to yourself. Allowing your pleasure to build, letting the finger vibe carrying you closer and closer to the summit with each caress, and tumbling over the precipice when you’re ready to fall. That’s empowering, master-level lovemaking, and it’s just for you.

Want to bring the Fin and edging into some partnered play? Stoke the flames by giving your partner the wheel. Your partner pleasures you until you’re about to come, then stops and lets you rest as many times as you like, or vice versa. Just make sure you have a safe word or stoplight system in place in case the intensity gets overwhelming.

Safe words aren’t just for kinksters. Learning your limits and communicating them to your partner(s) is for everyone.

Attention Older folks with Vulvas and Vaginas: As you age, sometimes getting wet and coming can be a little more challenging. Edging as foreplay can help if you want to reach your climax with your partner(s) but it takes you a little longer to get there.
cropped-img_1507.jpgI’m a bit of a kinkster, so I enjoy a little power in my play. Edging is a great way to dip your toe in the Domination/submission (D/s) pool. If you’re curious about being the big “D,” you can set a goal for your partner. For example, I want you to edge yourself five times in the next hour. Then give your partner the Fin and let them go to town.  If you want to try on being the little “s,” ask your partner to set the terms for you.

REMEMBER: If you’re going to venture into the land of kink, TALK ABOUT IT FIRST, make sure everyone’s on board with the plan, and have safe words and stoplights (Red – all stop, Yellow – stop & talk, and Green – all’s good). Practicing safe, sane, and consensual kink (SSC) or risk accepted consensual kink(RACK) is the key to an unforgettable, pleasurable experience.

Play safe, my Beauties, and don’t forget to bring the Fin Vibrator for Fingers by Dame along for the ride. Stay tuned tomorrow for a little flash fiction smut inspired by the Fin.

Be Well, Be Wonderful, and Above All Be You.
Anne


Image Credit: “Woman with a Parrot” by Gustave Courbet, 1866, H. O. Havemeyer Collection, Bequest of Mrs. H. O. Havemeyer, 1929, The Metropolitan Museum of Art, New York, www.metmuseum.org.
All other images are from your own sweet Anne Stagg. 

Basic RGB A Friendly Reminder: The links on this blog post are affiliate links. If you purchase the Fin Vibrator for Fingers by Dame or any other product from my Desireforpassion.com curated collection, I receive a small commission to keep the smutty thoughts and words flowing!

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