When Anxiety Drives the Struggle Bus
Well, here we are. The world is a scary place, and it's crucial to find ways to stay grounded amid the chaos. It's a tall order when anxiety is driving the struggle bus.
Is There a Right Way? Living Loud as Genderqueer
Coming out as genderqueer femme is a strange and fantastic experience. And now I'm learning how to live my truth with freedom with fearlessness.
Kink and Disability, A Beyond #fetchat Musing
The current Beyond #fetchat topic is disability and kink. Disability. Whew. I have a complicated relationship with that word. And when sex, especially kink, is added to the equation, complicated turns to Byzantine.
Trigger Words and the Benefits of Kink Communication Tools
For this week's Beyond #fetchat post, I want to talk about my own experience with triggers. And how kink communication practices can benefit folks who struggle with intrusive memories.
Home is Us, A Bit of Poly D/s Smut for Beyond #fetchat
ast week's #fetchat was all about Polyamorous D/s relationships. This bit of smutty flash is my Beyond #fetchat offering.
The First Word, A Beyond #fetchat Poem
Last week Nikki from loveisafetish.com (my amazing #fetchat co-host) and I introduced Beyond #fetchat, a weekly creative prompt. Our topic this week's Beyond #fetchat was impact play.
Dream/Time: A Wicked Wednesday Flash of Smut
This week's Wicked Wednesday prompt was all about time - timekeeping, time management. I became obsessed with the idea of an erotic dream, where time moves with its own rhythm.
The Best Sexual You, Sex and Magic Numbers
Everywhere there's talk about how to the best you in the new year, including how much sex makes a relationship healthy. Guess what? There's no magic number.
Masturbation and Intimacy, A Musing about Relationships
A musing about masturbation and intimacy, and how self-love can serve as a way to achieve sexual intimacy with yourself and your partner(s).
Reflecting on #fetchat in 2019
2019 has been a year of revelation, acceptance, and celebration. One of the accomplishments of which I’m most proud is contributing to the re-emergence of #fetchat in April.
